|When you bring a pet into your life, you begin a journey. A journey that will bring you more
love and devotion than you have ever known, yet will also test your strength and courage. If
you allow, the journey will teach you many things, about life, about yourself, and most of all,
about love. You will come away changed forever, for one soul cannot touch another without
leaving its mark.
Along the way, you will learn much about savoring life's simple pleasures -- jumping in leaves,
snoozing in the sun, the joys of puddles, and even the satisfaction of a good scratch behind
the ears. If you spend much time outside, you will be taught how to truly experience every
element, for no rock, leaf, or log will go unexamined, no rustling bush will be overlooked, and
even the very air will be inhaled, pondered, and noted as being full of valuable information.
Your pace may be slower, except when heading home to the food dish, but you will become a
better naturalist, having been taught by an expert in the field. Too many times we hike on
automatic pilot, our goal being to complete the trail rather than enjoy the journey. We miss
the details; the colorful mushrooms on the rotting log, the honeycomb in the old maple snag,
the hawk feather caught on a twig.
Once we walk as a dog does, we discover a whole new world. We stop; we browse the
landscape, we kick over leaves, peek in tree holes, look up, down, all around. And we learn
what any dog knows that nature has created a marvelously complex world that is full of
surprises, that each cycle of the seasons bring ever changing wonders, each day an essence all
its own, each day a gift from God.
Even from indoors you will find yourself more attuned to the world around you. You will find
yourself watching summer insects collecting on a screen; how bizarre they are; how many
kinds there are or noting the flick and flash of fireflies through the dark. You will stop to
observe the swirling dance of windblown leaves, or sniff the air after a rain. It does not
matter that there is no objective in this; the point is in the doing, in not letting life's most
important details slip by.
You will find yourself doing silly things that your pet-less friends might not understand:
spending thirty minutes in the grocery aisle looking for the cat food brand your feline must
have, buying dog birthday treats, or driving around the block an extra time because your pet
enjoys the ride. You will roll in the snow, wrestle with chewie toys, bounce little rubber balls
till your eyes cross, and even run around the house trailing your bathrobe tie with a cat in
hot pursuit, all in the name of love.
Your house will become muddier and hairier. You will wear less dark clothing and buy more
lint rollers. You may find dog biscuits in your pocket or purse, and feel the need to explain
that an old plastic shopping bag adorns your living room rug because your cat loves the
crinkly sound. You will learn the true measure of love. The steadfast, undying kind that says,
"It doesn't matter where we are or what we do, or how life treats us as long as we are
Respect this always. It is the most precious gift any living soul can give another. You will not
find it often among the human race. And you will learn humility. The look in my dog's eyes
often made me feel ashamed. Such joy and love at my presence. She saw not some flawed
human who could be cross and stubborn, moody or rude, but only her wonderful companion.
Or, maybe she saw those things and dismissed them as mere human foibles, not worth
considering, and so chose to love me anyway.
If you pay attention and learn well, when the journey is done, you will be not just a better
person, but the person your pet always knew you to be. The one they were proud to call
I must caution you that this journey is not without pain. Like all paths of true love, the pain
is part of loving. For as surely as the sun sets, one day your dear animal companion will
follow a trail you cannot yet go down. And, you will have to find the strength and love to let
A pet's time on earth is far too short, especially for those that love them. We borrow them,
really, just for a while, and during these brief years they are generous enough to give us all
their love, every inch of their spirit and heart, until one day there is nothing left. The cat
that only yesterday was a kitten is all too soon old and frail and sleeping in the sun. The
young pup of boundless energy now wakes up stiff and lame, the muzzle gone to gray.
Deep down we, somehow, always knew that this journey would end. We knew that if we gave
our hearts they would be broken. But give them we must, for it is all they ask in return.
When the time comes, and the road curves ahead to a place we cannot see, we give one final
gift and let them run on ahead, young and whole once more. "God speed, good friend," we say,
until our journey comes full circle and our paths cross again.
And bless their souls for sharing their lives with us... and adding so much to our very
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